My Personal Theme & 3 Reasons Why You Should Have One…

Today, February 28th, my personal calendar year starts anew. Now, I’ve never really given thought to having a personal theme, and focus on that for my entire year, but this year I decided to do just that. Like I explained in my “Good Bye 2020″ post, last year has been a real eye opener andContinue reading “My Personal Theme & 3 Reasons Why You Should Have One…”

Good Bye 2020!!

Like many of us, 2020 has ruffled feathers, shaken up the stagnant, and shed much light on what needed immediate attention. Some of us have experienced sudden loss, whether through health, jobs, friends and family, or just the way we once only knew how to live. Through so much uncertainty, we came out still unsure;Continue reading “Good Bye 2020!!”

Take Up Space! Let Your Voice Be Heard!

Today, I ran across this very well written and well recieved saying from Dj Love Light, and immediately fell in love. This sums up my entire theme of self fulfillment, starting with healing myself from past resentment that I hold myself accountable for. I never knew this way of keeping the peace was a badContinue reading “Take Up Space! Let Your Voice Be Heard!”

It Wasn’t Supposed To Be Like This…

#RelationshipJourneySeries #CommunicationIsKeyCHAPTER 1: WHEN THE HONEYMOON IS OVER For any fast paced moving relationship, things always take set with super speed because of how much of a fairytale things have been between you and your significant other. I’ve never really known them to end with an in-between storyline, but I definitely know them to eitherContinue reading “It Wasn’t Supposed To Be Like This…”

To The Younger Me…

Dear baby Jae, If I could show you the future to help lighten your worries, I would. But if it meant the slightest change in the outcome, whether it be for the better, I’m not sure I’d want you to take that chance to alter the lessons we’ve learned and the gifts we’ve been grantedContinue reading “To The Younger Me…”

Whose The Problem?! Women or Men?

The truth of the matter is, everything comes down to giving the energy that you need. Of course you want to make sure to begin with, that you and your significant other is compatible for each other. With that, you definitely need to weigh your options, and not continually ignore red flags that are clearly unhealthy signsContinue reading “Whose The Problem?! Women or Men?”

3 Starting Basics for Relationship Goals

I never understood quite deeply, why people measure the success of their relationship against those that they see posting seemingly happy couples pictures on social media sites. No one ever posts their fights or disagreements, their struggles or pain. At least not the “Relationship Goals” couples. Whenever we see someone rant about their significant otherContinue reading “3 Starting Basics for Relationship Goals”

Lack of Support In A Relationship

Being in a relationship founded on a lack of trust, can and will be just as bad or worse as being in one that lacks support. Just to paint a little illustration on how it’s related, just imagine an insecure relationship. Imagine having to be questioned about what you’re doing, where you’re going, why you’reContinue reading “Lack of Support In A Relationship”